Why men don't want to get married.

This is one of many reasons men don’t want to get married anymore. The (divorced) mom just uses the kid as a weapon to hurt the father.

In states like Michigan the Divorce Agreement is turned into a court order. But Michigan will not put the mom in jail for multiple violations of a court order. The father must attempt pickup and then if that fails, he must file a complaint with the court. And he’s supposed to get a make up weekend.

Thus the profound weakness of the courts ignoring court orders, and abusive mothers, is one of many reasons men don’t want to get married anymore.

(Below, I don’t know what state this is in.)